Unto the Keep,
I am curious to know your views on Households, and other formal relationships, within the SCA, both for their historic significance or their impact on SCA and modern life. I would like the views of both those who are household members and those who are not.
I am not a part of a household. My lord is, so I spend a great deal of my time, both at events, and on free weekends, with his household.
All members of Ulf’s household swear an oath of fealty to one of the peers of the household ~ of which there are Three Knights, a Lady of the Rose who is also a Pelican, and a Laurel (who moved far away, and to my knowledge no longer plays).
(The actual group of peers and their individual households forms more a Clan than a single household, but for simplicity’s sake, I’m going to refer to the entire group as one household.)
Ulf is a squire in a fighting household. There are members of the household who do not fight, but primarily, all activity revolves around fighting, or is in some great way related to it (A&S projects of the heraldic tabard and banner sort, or armoring, for instance). And those not on the field are usually on the side of it.
I enjoy watching the tourneys and supporting my lord and his knight. I am friends with some of the household members. And at many events, I know there will be a comfortable and familiar group of people I can socialize with, and somewhere I can put my chair. But they are not my household.
And sometimes I long for a group of my own where I can feel that I truly belong. But, if I wanted to join a household, I don't really know where I'd go. There is no one in my limited circles to whom I would swear fealty and no one I can imagine studying under.
· I have never seriously considered myself a potential squire. I never got very far in my heavy training, and to the best of my knowledge you can't be a squire if you have only ever fought rapier.
· I don't know any Laurels who are knowledgeable of a topic I am interested in studying profusely, or who I like enough to become their apprentice.
· I am not close enough to any Ladies of the Rose to become a companion.
· I am not suited to become a Pelican’s protégé.
For my lord, it is a matter of family, of belonging, of great instruction, and a true matter of pride being a member of his household, both as a part of his SCA experience and in his modern life.
What other reasons do people have for joining households or creating Teacher-Student bonds, and other formal relationships? What traditions do you have or have you seen?
Are your educational relationships based on fealty? Or a simple comradeship and sense of family?
Are you simply a student and not a member of that peer’s household?
Did you join a household for possibility of future advancement (to become a knight, a laurel or a pelican).
To have a stronger voice to speak up for you?
It has been my observation in my area that people join only one household. This may be due to a seriousness with which the members enter into their fealty. Or for simplicity's sake in terms of event activities or camping choices at large events or wars. I do not know for certain.
I have seen here in Thunder's Keep that people are members of multiple households. Does membership in several intensify your enjoyment of the SCA? Do your various household activities overlap in terms of interests or is each group for a seperate interest. Do you find yourself ever torn between the groups? How serious do you take your membership in any of them? How do the multiple memberships impact you and your experience in each? I notice some of you are members of the same multiple households. Does this help keep the groups together?
What connections do you see or long for between SCA households and the households of the Middle Ages? Are there historic elements missing? Does it matter if there are? Do you want the households you are part of to be more historically accurate, or are they already? Does the historic structure or significance matter to you? Are the SCAdian traditions more important than being completely true to the historic household? Equally important? And once again, what are those traditions?
I am very curious on these topics and I greatly anticipate myriad views and ideas.
~Ginevra Isabetta del Dolce
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